I'm a Fixer. I Admit It.
When you see people you know going through a difficult situation, it is tough. It is especially tough if you are a "fixer." By fixer, I mean someone that always wants to fix any problem and keep things from being bad for your friends and family. I am a fixer. I admit it. It's a tough job, but I feel like someone (me and only me) must do it. Why do I do this to myself? Why do I do this to others? Maybe the best thing I can do is let them experience what life hands them. I have a friend going through a tough time right now. It is getting even more difficult through no fault of her own. My temptation is to step in and try to work on the situation for her as a friend; I mean, she has enough to deal with right now, but she may miss a growing experience. I have decided I will step away from the situation. The Lord may be trying to show her something that she needs to see. He may be trying to teach her something that she needs to learn. If I try to end it or make it bett...